Potter wrote: Thu Feb 17, 2022 12:43 pm
Noggin wrote: Thu Feb 17, 2022 10:17 am
I was. I couldn't be for the last year due to...
It's hard but you need to know whether you're where you're supposed to be and the issues are part of the ride, or whether you're banging your head against the wall and it's time to exit stage left.
When I look back over my career it was quite simple really, when I was happy then I did well, when I wasn't then no matter how much I thought it was the right direction or how much I flogged myself it just didn't work out.
It's really hard to make the decision, but sometimes I've had to walk away and try something else.
Totally. Its why I think I need to give it another winter.
1 - to be sure I have sorted the health thing
2 - to be in the right place to be able to do it
I guess that if, after next winter, I'm unsure, then that will be the time to give up completely. But for now, I feel that I still have the want and passion to make it work; it just wouldn't work if I did it for the coming winter
Couchy wrote: Thu Feb 17, 2022 5:21 pm
I typed a long reply but dunno where it went.
Basically I’ve had my business 30 years and in recent times it’s got a lot bigger and busier. The only reason I’ve chased this is to top my pension up. Once that’s done I’ll move on. I can’t see how you could do less and let others do the work so you can use it as an income. A successful business needs you 24/7 especially with employees. I’ve seen the reasons it hasn’t worked out so far and I have to say your health is far more important. Have you put together a business plan to prove it can work ? If that says it can it could be worth doing, but if it has a chance of impacting your health I’d say nah.
I don't really mean do less, more that, as I get older I will need others to do the driving more than me and I'll do more of the office/face of the business. If it goes the way I'd want it to, then there should be enough work/vehicles/staff for me to mostly do office. I don't think I'd want to let it go completely, just need to find a way to manage it as I get old!!
It was always my plan to build it to being an income to backup my pension but without me having to drive 4-5 days a week. Doing a day or two here and there would be good tho!
The business itself didn't affect my health badly. I mean, yes, there was a lot of stress, but that was poor decisions!! And a minibus that blew up and the garage refusing to cancel the sale (even though they were legally obliged to do so). Oh, and Covid and Brexit!!
I did have a business plan but I have an accountant friend here that I am going to get to help me do a new one before I commit to anything. I'm 100% sure it will work, with the right number of vehicles/all year round staff/etc etc. But as you say, I need to do it properly to be sure, and to do that, I need to get someone a bit outside to look at the business plan with me
The accountant friend is also one of my 'new' friend network that is also the support network I've found. I had neither when I set up originally, so having to do it all 100% solo was definitely not the best way to do things!!
The health issue has been 100% menopause (ok, elements of stress to do with shoulder and financial issues, but the menopause caused the melted brain and made me unable to function. Possibly worse due to the other stress stuff, but I managed the rest before menopause so figure I'd have continued to be able to do that!!). It's about 70% under control now and the final piece of the jigsaw is a hormone I can't get here, so have to wait till I visit the UK to get that bit sorted.
That is the other thing that I need to wait to be sure about. As long as that final piece does work, then I will be happy to start for myself again (but still after the next season!!). If it doesn't, then my brain doesn't function well enough right now to run a business, which means that I can't set up again unless I can find a way to sort the hormone imbalance and get all my brain back!!!
As I said before - I really do appreciate the comments. It has made me think a lot about different things to do with this and, maybe weirdly, feel a lot more positive
Thank you loads you guys xxx