weeksy wrote: ↑Thu Mar 14, 2024 10:36 am
Potter wrote: ↑Thu Mar 14, 2024 10:31 am
Count Steer wrote: ↑Thu Mar 14, 2024 8:38 am
Nostalgia and desire often don't survive reality*.
I suppose it depends what you want out of it.
If you buy a Ferrari 308 GTS expecting the latest tech and the fastest car on the road then you’d be disappointed, but if it’s an impossible dream come true then it might tick a box.
I don’t want to bare all but I was in a very unhappy place and in a TV room when I was about ten years old and Magnum PI came on, when the Ferrari appeared I pointed at the screen and said “I’ll have one of those one day” to much piss taking from the adults and the kids there who basically said those things didn’t happen to people like me. The soul destroying things was, I thought they were probably right.
Assuming you can get in it in terms of price and back out without too much issue, then that sort of dream is clearly a brilliant thing.
But, will it give you anything other than a 3 day fix ? sure there'll be the chase, there'll be the deal, but after that, what ultimately are you doing it for ? To prove yourself right ? Surely the fact you CAN buy it is already doing that ?
There's a danger that the greater the desire, the greater the come-down after the initial buzz. A close friend was, what I think was, sort of bipolar. Life was a constant cycle of 'If only I had x, then I'd be happy' Get's x (usually at considerable expense), gets a buzz, realises that nothing much has really changed, gets depressed then thinks 'I know, what I need is y, then I'll be happy'. Rinse and repeat, leaving behind a stream of sold x's and y's. Happily she's broken out of the cycle, lives the rural idyll with not a lot of stuff, looks after her bees, plays a squeeze box and was more happy and content and looked it last time I saw her.
The buzz is nice, no denying it, but it can be awfully temporary. (Which I guess fits with advertising, sell the dream and let the buyer deal with the reality).