Noggin wrote: Thu Dec 15, 2022 12:39 pm
So on the back of all this, how do you approach a friend that has a dog but thinks everyone loves dogs and doesn't keep her on a lead? Mostly it's totally fine as where we are is almost people-less for half the year!
But, She doesn't respond quickly/always to a whistle and rarely to voice. She (the dog) thinks everyone loves her, and she is loveable and so very gentle - the only time I've ever seen her growl was when she was on a lead and we were sat outside a restaurant where the owner was wearing a red shirt. Apparently she's reacted badly to men in red shirts before, but only in the 'growl and run away' sense.
She's a rescue from Croatia or Serbia - no idea of her history but she doesn't deal well with fireworks or thunder, and has been know to take a chicken!! But, despite her rarely being on a lead I've never seen any aggression.
BUT - my issue is more that she does run up to people, both adults and kids. I love dogs and we had dogs when I was a kid, so I'm not scared of them. But I REALLY dislike it when one rushes at me - how on earth would someone that doesn't feel good around dogs feel?
So, how do I tactfully (might be the wrong forum!) suggest that he works a LOT harder on recall? Or at least uses the whistle to call her back quicker when she rushes to people (or even stands by their table, asking nicely for scraps

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I do love the dog, she's a cutie and despite the fairly horrific start in life, she has an amazing and gentle character. So how on earth to do I suggest to my friend that he needs to sort the training/control? (He's lovely too and been really kind to me the lat couple of years, so I certainly don't want to piss him off/upset him!!)
I have a female friend who is similar and shoots down anyone who mentions anything bad about any dog ever!
She is probably one of the nicest people you will ever meet but she needs to change her views on dogs. She has about 3 rats (small dogs) that just yap all the time at any stranger in her house. I remember sitting down in her living room once and one dog would sit there and just yap at me getting closer and closer until a jumped up and scared it off, then it would start again at a distance and repeat at infimum.
I have told her, she just says that's the way that type of dog is! Hmmm, not really.
I have never been a dog lover and have been brought up with cats throughout my life, except from a few neighbours moaning about them shitting in their gardens they are no trouble at all...
I don't hate all dogs, but those small yappy dogs need to be exterminated!