Thanx for writing that. Made me realise (along with another mate who doesn't live here!) that I should sometimes have more faith in myself!!Bigjawa wrote: ↑Sat Aug 10, 2024 7:45 pmI asked a girl out once and got knocked back, she was a bigger girl and I heard later she assumed I was doing it for a dare, by the time she found out the truth I had already started seeing someone else. Looking back, the idea of asking someone out would terrify me now, I simply couldn't do it now, drunk or sober.
Anyway, apparently he was serious (even sober!) So I do need to believe a smidge more - just difficult when surrounded by young fit women, why would anyone choose the opposite?!