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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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Well I’m working Xmas night and failed to get Mrs M and I seats at the local pub for lunch, this means MiL and FiL the Crypto “King and Queen” are angling for an invite to ours which I feel severely disinclined to acquiesce to as I really don’t want Mrs M running round after them whilst they “offer” to help and don’t all whilst I’m getting ready for work a run of 12 hr nights.
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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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Greenman wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:54 pm

i shall be in on my own till boxing day
I'm hoping Mrs. G doesn't read this as she'll extend an invite and I'll find you sat at the table come Christmas day. :lol:
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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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gremlin wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:03 pm
weeksy wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 12:50 pm
Why not say "no, we're going away the day after"
I don't get asked. Mrs. G makes these plans without my knowledge because she is a far better, nicer person than I will ever be. :lol:
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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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gremlin wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 2:23 pm
Greenman wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:54 pm

i shall be in on my own till boxing day
I'm hoping Mrs. G doesn't read this as she'll extend an invite and I'll find you sat at the table come Christmas day. :lol:
Yeah you defo don't want that, though i do normally come armed with some decent Ciders and Cheese...;)
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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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gremlin wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:40 pm
weeksy wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:25 pm
gremlin wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:03 pm

I don't get asked. Mrs. G makes these plans without my knowledge because she is a far better, nicer person than I will ever be. :lol:
Seems somewhat unreasonable of her if i'm being harsh/honest.
It's a fair point.

However, I do get that she doesn't want to leave her dad on his own, which is admirable. In past years, she'd say the same about her brother and/or sister, depending on their marital/relationship status. Would I want to see them sat on their Jack with a microwave meal for one and sorry-looking paper hat? Probably not. I suspect this year Gremlinette's ex-girlfriend and her mum will be coming, as they will be on their own otherwise.

Christ, I'm reading what I've written and realise I sound like bloody Scrooge now. :lol:
How will they be on their own if there are two of them?
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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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McNab wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 3:23 pm
gremlin wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:40 pm
weeksy wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:25 pm

Seems somewhat unreasonable of her if i'm being harsh/honest.
It's a fair point.

However, I do get that she doesn't want to leave her dad on his own, which is admirable. In past years, she'd say the same about her brother and/or sister, depending on their marital/relationship status. Would I want to see them sat on their Jack with a microwave meal for one and sorry-looking paper hat? Probably not. I suspect this year Gremlinette's ex-girlfriend and her mum will be coming, as they will be on their own otherwise.

Christ, I'm reading what I've written and realise I sound like bloody Scrooge now. :lol:
How will they be on their own if there are two of them?
They'll be alone together, obviously...
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I managed to swerve the Christmas gathering last year and spent it on my own. I didn't tell many people beforehand as the arrangement suited me well.

I doubt I'll able to do the same this year.
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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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My parents have decreed they can't be arsed this year and want just the two of them, almost in as many words :lol:

Last year they were volunteering at the Hospital and the year before that we hosted, so I dunno what their problem is ;)
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We have solved the Xmas issue this year, we are going to a hotel on Xmas Eve, and not leaving until the day after Boxing Day.
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I'm working all day this Christmas. Last year wasn't bad as my nephew was here but I didn't have the money for us to have a 'proper' fun Christmas - he was happy cos he was here, but I wanted to do so much more :(

It's weird here, but generally the best Christamses here were in the chalets because I got to cook a full turkey dinner for anything from 6 - 14 people!!

The absolute best was the year that some friends were looking after a chalet but it wasn't rented to Christmas week - a group of waifs and strays all got together and I cooked. That was one of the best ever :D


This year I'll either be in the office all day or, probably, doing airport transfers! But, NEXT year I won't be whinging cos Christmas will be on a day I won't be working (probably) and hopefully my niece will be over :D


For now, I cant quite get the grouch-like moan on too much, cos even when I'm working, I still live on a snow covered mountain when it's Christmas :D :D :D
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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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gremlin wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 2:23 pm
Greenman wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:54 pm

i shall be in on my own till boxing day
I'm hoping Mrs. G doesn't read this as she'll extend an invite and I'll find you sat at the table come Christmas day. :lol:
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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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Greenman wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 2:35 pm
gremlin wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 2:23 pm
Greenman wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 1:54 pm

i shall be in on my own till boxing day
I'm hoping Mrs. G doesn't read this as she'll extend an invite and I'll find you sat at the table come Christmas day. :lol:
Yeah you defo don't want that, though i do normally come armed with some decent Ciders and Cheese...;)
And herbal cigarettes?
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Re: Too early for a Christmas grouch-like moan?

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Yorick wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 6:39 pm
Greenman wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 2:35 pm
gremlin wrote: Tue Nov 21, 2023 2:23 pm

I'm hoping Mrs. G doesn't read this as she'll extend an invite and I'll find you sat at the table come Christmas day. :lol:
Yeah you defo don't want that, though i do normally come armed with some decent Ciders and Cheese...;)
And herbal cigarettes?
Shhhhh that's a secret!