And as if by magic an example pops up
Not picking on you here Screwd but it's a perfect case in point! If something is too chunky it can break because it "sucks all the load up". Stress is split between things in the ratio of their stiffnesses, so if you make one thing particularly chunky it ends up carrying all the load and breaking earlier
I have no idea who you man is Mango...but I'm a qualified engineer too and I wouldn't trust my self to turn a spacer down and retain all my fingers in the process It's a big field!
EDIT: BTW, in case you're wondering what one would do in this situation "for real". We'd FEA it We'd probably FEA the stock bar set up and then the new set up and see what's changed. Then maybe fuck around with how 'stiff' the riser to top yoke connection is to investigate the effect of rubber. It's actually fairly unlikely you'd get a yes/no FEA answer but by comparing it to the stock set up you can at least get an idea of whether it's better/worse.
Then we'd do a simple test. Just built a fixure to hold the yoke vertically probably then push on the end of the riser to see how much force that takes to break it (and where it breaks) then compare to some reasonable guestimates of in services forces. Realistically we'd probably make half a dozen or so, including the one you actually want to use.
This is why anything from a factory OEM is $$$. On the plus side though, you know it's not likely to kill you