Why do you think he's not trying to create change from the inside?
To make changes, it probably needs recognition that change would be beneficial.
It would be more concerning if he didn't recognise that need.
Why do you think he's not trying to create change from the inside?
Indeed. I've watched a couple work hard to build capital to get the house they wanted, where they wanted. Their forever home.
On balance,it's probably worth a shot if you want to try to leave something for your weans to fight over,but when it doesn't go to plan it's a shit sandwich for all involved.Horse wrote: ↑Tue Mar 21, 2023 11:13 amIndeed. I've watched a couple work hard to build capital to get the house they wanted, where they wanted. Their forever home.
It's not, they have now realised, actually where they want to be.
Personally, we met after expensive (for us both) broken relationships. I was 40 when we married, 42 when Foal was born. We went to the maximum we could to buy this place then, later, put an extension on. Theoretically mortgage until 67 for me. But we paid it off. Renting somewhere similar would have been more expensive (currently £1400-1600) than the mortgage, and we'd have had nothing like as nice a place and no asset at the end.
BIL has told his two kids he's making a solid attempt to spend their inheritance. He loves travel,so he's always off somewhere. He arrived back yesterday bringing the gift of Covid,must be about the 6th time he's picked it up.Potter wrote: ↑Tue Mar 21, 2023 11:26 amI'd probably work for longer to give my kids a lump sum early on so they don't have to struggle.
My wife is at the opposite end of the spectrum, she wants us to quit asap and enjoy ourselves as much as we can for as long as we can, then the kids can inherit whatever is left.
I think she's right, but as a dad you always feel that sense of duty.
Anyway, we've gone hell for leather to pay everything off, bang money away and get to that point asap.
Mr Moofo wrote: ↑Tue Mar 21, 2023 8:20 amNow you are "very senior" are you not exactly the person that should be solving the issues in the NHS, rather than saying it is not if for purpose? If not you - who? It is what senior management is meant to do (in the private sector, where you get sacked if you don't)Docca wrote: ↑Mon Mar 20, 2023 5:20 pm
Yes, exactly that.
I’m quite transparent when it comes to this type of thing. Always have been, even on the days of VD when I was talking about being a ‘band 6’ and how much I earned. For most of my career, my salary range has been published online. It’s only now that I’m moving in to the ‘very senior’ bit where salaries don’t need to be published.
Isn't blaming the government all the time, like blaming the shareholders ( which ultimately is us)
This is also my experience. Plus, so get on the property ladder nowadays is arguably significantly more difficultweeksy wrote: ↑Tue Mar 21, 2023 10:53 amI didn't buy a house until 40... Therefore having a mortgage late on is sadly the impact. There's many reasons for why and how this happened, mostly though, stupidityLe_Fromage_Grande wrote: ↑Tue Mar 21, 2023 10:15 amHaving a mortgage in your 60s doesn't seem wise to me, but if people want to spend their whole lives working so they can have a bigger house then it's their choice.
No idea about French rules (and retirement age).
Soon as I get a permanent contract, I'm heading to an advisor to find out what the score is!! Love my apartment but I really would like somewhere with an actual bedroom and room to invite friends round for dinner!! LOLHorse wrote: ↑Tue Mar 21, 2023 6:58 pmNo idea about French rules (and retirement age).
However, in the uk companies can't legally force someone to retire, so - although there is an age at which the state pension starts - there's no such thing as 'retirement age'. My most recent mortgage was due to end when I was 67 (my state pension age is 66).
Just getting a rental place is hard.Docca wrote: ↑Tue Mar 21, 2023 1:15 pmThis is also my experience. Plus, so get on the property ladder nowadays is arguably significantly more difficultweeksy wrote: ↑Tue Mar 21, 2023 10:53 amI didn't buy a house until 40... Therefore having a mortgage late on is sadly the impact. There's many reasons for why and how this happened, mostly though, stupidityLe_Fromage_Grande wrote: ↑Tue Mar 21, 2023 10:15 am
Having a mortgage in your 60s doesn't seem wise to me, but if people want to spend their whole lives working so they can have a bigger house then it's their choice.