I've always had an aloof mercenary streak, my thinking was always if it went pear shaped she'd have got my life insurance money and still have the other parental unit, and she'd get over it / me soon enough, life must go on and all that.Noggin wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 3:08 pm For me, the or something is living. Maybe I would feel differently if I'd had kids, or someone to worry about. Maybe. But I don't think it's a bad thing to do to teach a kid that you can love them 100% and still do the sports/hobbies that make you 'you'. Might make me a bad person thinking that way?
I try and introduce her to things that I enjoy or think she'd enjoy, she's not got the bike bug yet, maybe she will later;
Although I do worry that she may take after me just a little to much