We have similar with meal choicesSkub wrote: ↑Tue Oct 05, 2021 11:35 amSounds like Mrs.Skub.weeksy wrote: ↑Tue Oct 05, 2021 11:08 amShe doesn't know that answer, in biking terms she loves riding on track but that's it... that's where her interests end. She knows very little about bikes, differences, riding styles, electronics etc... That's all left down to me along with tyres, servicing, prepping etc...
However, just because someone doesn't know... doesn't mean there's not a better suited bike out there.
1.Me...what would you like for your birthday/Xmas etc?
2.Her...a surprise.
3.Me...but there's history there of you not liking my surprises,so tell me what you'd like and I'll get it.
4.Her...that's not a surprise then is it? I may as well buy it myself.
5.Me...but the object of the exercise is to be gifted something you'd really like and enjoy.
6.Her...but that's not a surprise. I want you to put in some thought as to what I would like.
7.Ref point 3.
her : what do you want for tea?
me : Burgers ?
her : No..
me : How about Indian?
her : No
me : how about you tell me what we're having then.
her : ok, parmesan chicken.
me : Why didn't you just say "we're having parmesan chicken then?
her : Well you may have wanted something different
me : I did yes, but you said no to both my suggestions.